Tips for First Time Couples

Make it a Night to Remember

If you’ve never been to a gentlemen’s club with your partner, you are in for a very special treat. Just keep in mind there is a very delicate dance that must be executed with skill lest the night end in tears. Sharing an evening with your loved one at an adult nightclub can definitely provide a spark to your relationship. It can also electrocute it. We’re going to make sure you end the night blissfully wrapped in your lover’s arms, not walking alone down a desolate highway wondering where it all went wrong.

It’s Not About You

Regardless of your gender, and that of your partner, if you just remember one thing it is this:

This one rule will guide you in every situation where the correct path is not clear.  Suppose you’re a guy. Yes, having that gorgeous bombshell grinding on your lap with her breasts bouncing in your face seems like a great idea.

Odds are, your partner doesn’t share your enthusiasm. If she encourages this course of action, consider yourself lucky… (but also keep in mind it’s more likely a trap that will be sprung at some point in the future when you least expect it.)

For the ladies, yes getting on a stage with the two beautiful dancers that make you question your sexuality may seem like a good idea at the time, but be cautious.

Yes, any red-blooded man would love to see his lover “get down” with a pair of smoking hot babes, but once he finds out he’s really not invited to join the fun, his perspective can change very quickly.

Throw alcohol into the mix and the rules of engagement get blurred very quickly. Societal norms are already skewed in a strip club. Add a partner, mix in some booze, and pretty soon you have no idea what is acceptable behavior.

I talked to a security manager at an upscale gentlemen’s club who reflected, “You know, we hardly ever have any fights in here, and when we do it’s usually a couple.”

Navigating uncertain situations can be challenging, but we have one rule that can guide you through such moments. Regardless of your gender, it’s important to prioritize your partner’s feelings over your own pleasure. While some ideas may seem enticing, it’s crucial to prioritize open communication and mutual respect with your partner. Let’s explore some tips to ensure a positive experience while avoiding potential pitfalls.

For Men

Gentlemen, it’s essential to avoid pressuring your partner into visiting a strip club. Instead, casually suggest the idea and let her express her interest. Remember, coercing her into it will only lead to disaster.

If she willingly agrees or even proposes the idea herself, let her take the lead. Although you may be tempted to display your knowledge of strip clubs, it’s best to refrain from doing so. Instead, focus on making her comfortable, such as ordering drinks or selecting a table. When it comes to interacting with the dancers, let her make the decisions. Encourage her to engage with the performers and join her if she desires.

Remember, the key is to prioritize her experience. As the night progresses, she may connect with a dancer who can provide a more personal conversation. Until you are sure about her preferences, encourage the dancers to focus on her. This approach will ensure a satisfying night for both of you, and if things go well, she may even suggest future strip club date nights.

For Women

Ladies, if you decide to accompany your partner to a strip club, take charge of the experience. Choose the dancers, order rounds of drinks, and suggest private dances. Embrace the environment and show your confidence.

There’s nothing more disappointing than someone who claims to be up for strip club action but then sits timidly in a corner. Treat yourself to a dance and don’t forget to buy one for your partner.

Your confidence will arouse your partner, knowing that you’re secure in your sexuality and not concerned about their thoughts or actions. If at any point you feel uncomfortable, discreetly whisper in your partner’s ear, “Let’s leave. I have something I want to show you.” You’ll be surprised how quickly they respond!

In and Out

Remember, the purpose of a couple’s night at a strip club is to enhance your relationship. Stay for a while, have fun, and allow yourself to be aroused. To make the most of this heightened state, channel your erotic energy into passionate exploration when you return to your room or private space.

By following these guidelines and maintaining open communication, a trip to a strip club can be a thrilling and bonding experience for both partners.

If you stay for hours and the drinks are flowing, there are just too many things that can ruin a great night. By now you’re practically a pro. You’ve got a plan, you know which strip clubs are couple friendly, all you need to do is book your free VIP limo. Give us a call, we’ll make all the arrangements so you can focus on the love of your life. And remember… “It’s not about me, it’s about us.”

Other Options

Going to a strip club involves a lot of moving parts, all which much work in concert in order for both partners to have a good time. Another option is to hire a private stripper or book an erotic massage in your room.

This eliminates the distractions from other guests at a club, you can relax in the privacy of your own hotel room. And pick the perfect entertainer or provider to suit your tastes. You can play the music you like to really set the mood. And best of all, drinks are much cheaper.

Whatever route you go, just remember to have fun and enjoy the ride!